Slap in the face. Instant. Weakness? 06 February 2011, 14:00 | Yulia Alimkina
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27.11.10- Nothing! I don't need anything! Get your money away! I'll get home by myself! On the! Take it! I don’t need them, just like your antics! - Stupid! Take the car and leave! Go home! You don’t understand, this won’t lead to anything good! You got me! I'm so tired of you!...FOOL! - I'm not going anywhere! Apologize! Apologize for everything you said to me! I will not allow you to treat me like this!…
How many words, how many thoughts, how many things are spinning in your head! Behind the whirlwind of emotions, my head does not give an account of the words that fly out of my mouth! My lips are chapped from the hatred that is eating away at me and growing exponentially! I'm trembling. I’m trembling all over my body down to my fingertips from this poisonous feeling, and this poison seems so sweet and attractive that I want to say something to make it feel offensive, painful, nasty and just as disgusting as it is to me! But what can I say? I have already said a lot - that I hate it, I remembered all the sins, all the mistakes, all the faults, everything that caused tears and resentment. But he still yells at me! He's running away! He doesn't want to apologize! I'm strong! I'll force you!
I run after him, forcefully turn him towards me and force him to apologize. I know he won't do it! I know for sure! But he must! He is not right! He's absolutely a monster! Scoundrel! Scoundrel! Traitor! Vile, slippery, disgusting, disgusting!... I no longer know what I think, what I say... I don’t realize what I hear from his lips, which I loved to kiss so much! And how could I consider them tender and beautiful! Pleasant memories make it even more disgusting and disgusting, so everything that once warmed the soul quickly disappears from the head and from the heart, so as not to poison this sweet poison...
Slap in the face.
And then... And then I don’t remember. No, I slapped him. Hit hard. And it hurt so much that I lost my memory.
14.12.10For the first time in 4 years we have not seen each other for so many days. We met. We buried the hatchets. I forgave him. He forgave me. And let it sound somewhat banal. We told each other what we each wanted to hear. And you know, everything inside me is so wonderful now that I still don’t believe that he is capable of creating such a fairy tale atmosphere, that I feel like a small and fragile princess, for whose sake the prince meets his princess every day and brings him home and feeds her with pies and homemade dumplings.
2 months have already passed since that day, and I still haven’t told him that... I haven’t admitted my weakness. She did not admit her promiscuity. I'm a girl. Sweet, gentle, beautiful and successful. Confident. Slap in the face. Instant. Weakness. Not a weakness for sweets, good wine and expensive shoes.
Severe weakness. Weakness is sick. Poisonous. She hit me because she couldn’t find the strength to appear indifferent. I couldn’t find the strength to go home away from this nightmare and turn off the phone. I couldn’t find the strength to show my confidence... Unable, helpless, I slapped her in the face. Maybe it's worth it. No, definitely - let's get to work. I couldn't find the words to stop him. Not to hear. Don't talk. I was given one attempt, and I could not press the “delete” button... I didn’t have a proofreader at hand...
A word is not a sparrow, but an action is even more so. And I became scared for myself. To admit that you are a weak person is to show your strength. But will a truly strong person show his strength?... So strength or weakness?
Slap in the face. Instant. Weakness. I probably shouldn't say anything to him. I just love him. And he... And he loves me. And I am happy that in the end I am weak, and he is strong, courageous and ready to stand up for me in any situation - whether I am angry and fierce, crying and laughing, kind and affectionate. Weak, strong, and does it matter?! I love him! I love me! And the main thing is that we feel it, and this feeling, the most precious, the most reverent, touching, stormy, bright, all-consuming, replaces a thousand words for us.
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Causes of bruises
The appearance of bruises on the skin is more often observed in those people who are affected by certain factors. Older people are more prone to hematomas because their skin becomes thinner with age. Gradually, connective tissue is destroyed, blood vessels become more fragile.
People who are used to being exposed to direct sunlight for long periods of time are also more prone to bruising. Hematomas appear more often in those who take a lot of medications, in particular those that thin the blood.
Women who have entered menopause experience a lack of estrogen . Hormonal imbalance leads to many changes, including a greater tendency to form bruises on the body.
Under the influence of all the above reasons, damage occurs to the connective tissue that protects the capillaries. The elasticity of blood vessels is lost, and even a relatively light touch can cause hematomas.
Bruises under the eyes are observed in people who have a genetic predisposition to this phenomenon. People suffering from diseases of the liver, kidneys, heart, blood vessels, and genitourinary system are also prone to the appearance of such bruises.
Why do bruises appear?
In a person with weak blood vessels, bruises appear more often. With high permeability of the walls of blood vessels, during mechanical impact with a blow or simple pressure, capillaries burst, and blood flows under the skin in the area of damage. Therefore, a bruise is not only a cosmetic defect, but also a painful microtrauma. In special cases of very long healing or a deep location of the hematoma in the muscle tissue, doctors use surgery to remove suppuration and avoid inflammatory processes.
How to quickly get rid of bruises?
According to doctors, an ordinary hematoma should disappear on its own over several days or weeks, depending on the extent of the lesion. Gradually the bruise changes color. Initially it is blue-red, later the hematoma becomes blackish and gradually changes color to yellowish-green. At the same time, quick treatment of bruises under the eyes is hardly possible. To reduce the severity of this phenomenon, it is necessary to regularly carry out special procedures.
The lower a hematoma appears on a person’s body, the slower it goes away. There is greater pressure from circulating blood on the vessels of the legs. Therefore, abrasions and wounds on the legs bleed more intensely.
How to get rid of bruises on the face and other parts of the body should be taken care of immediately after the injury. To prevent a bruise from a blow from appearing, or at least to be less extensive, it is necessary to immediately apply ice or cold to the affected area immediately after the blow. Under the influence of cold, blood vessels actively contract, so a quick way to help is to wrap ice in a cloth and hold it near the site of impact for at least 10 minutes. This procedure must be carried out several times at intervals of two hours. This method can only be used immediately after an injury; it will not help get rid of old bruises.
A day after the injury, a bruise above the eye, on the nose or elsewhere is already fully formed. How to quickly get rid of bruises during this period is “suggested” by the functioning of the circulatory system. The vessels need to be dilated so that the accumulated fluid and blood cells are carried away through them faster. To do this, heat is applied to the site of the bruise: you can apply a warm heating pad to the hematoma for about 20 minutes. This procedure is done three times a day. By the way, heat can prevent bruising from an injection in both adults and children. To prevent a bruise on the butt after the injection, you should hold a warm heating pad for several minutes to improve the resorption process.
If the injury occurs on a limb, the area of injury should be immediately covered with an elastic bandage. This method will help avoid blood leakage, and in the end the bruise will not be very pronounced.
Acne bruises are not easy to remove, so the best thing to do is to prevent them from appearing, that is, do not squeeze the pimples. To reduce their manifestation, the face is initially cleaned with the help of special cosmetics and herbal decoctions, after which creams and gels are used to help resolve bruises.
Ideally, the best cream for bruises under the eyes, on the face and on other parts of the body should be recommended by a doctor who has previously examined you. A kind of “ambulance” for hematomas is creams containing vitamin K. Cream for bruises and bruises with this vitamin penetrates the skin and promotes the active breakdown of leaked blood. This remedy should be rubbed in immediately after the injury, and then twice a day until the bruise disappears. By the way, food rich in vitamin K does not affect the treatment of hematomas, since the concentration of the resulting vitamin is not enough for such an effective effect. Substances that thin the blood are part of the Sinyak-OFF cream . It quickly penetrates the skin, dilutes blood clots and helps relieve inflammation.
Considering that hematomas very often appear in young children due to their mobility, the first aid kit of conscious parents should also have the best ointment for bruises for children. Bruises that appear on a child can be treated with ointments Troxevasin , Bruise-off , Traumeel S , Rescuer . Heparin ointment is also effective for bruises and contusions. Reviews from those who have used these remedies for bruises indicate that hematomas on the face and other parts of the child’s body disappear faster after regular treatment. You can ask your pediatrician which ointment for bruises and hematomas is best for your child.
If the question of how to remove a bruise on your face is relevant to you, you can try using any of the ointments listed above. Of course, it is unlikely that it will be possible to remove a bruise on the body in 1 day, but the appearance of hematomas from injections, bruises and other injuries will be significantly reduced.
If you can’t remove a bruise from your eyes, you should use special concealers that have a yellowish color for a while. They can be purchased at a pharmacy. With the help of such means you can disguise a bruise not only on the face, but also on the arm and other parts of the body.
It is much easier to answer the question of how to remove bruises on the legs. They are less noticeable, so such hematomas are relatively easy to disguise under clothing. When advising on how to remove a bruise from a blow, the doctor may suggest applying an iodine mesh . This method speeds up the healing process of hematomas. However, it should be noted that the mesh should be made from a weak solution. Traditional medicine also gives a lot of advice on how to remove hematomas. But before determining how to quickly remove a bruise at home, you need to make sure that the hematoma does not pose a danger to human health.
Self-treatment of hematomas with remedies from your home medicine cabinet
To quickly remove a bruise, it is necessary to treat it in accordance with the nature of its appearance. If we are talking about an ordinary bruise, cold and rest are the best medicine. When a hematoma is the result of a disease, you will need to consult a doctor. Only after the diagnosis has been established will appropriate treatment be prescribed. In the absence of obvious diseases, a bruise can be treated as follows:
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- warming compresses (even alcohol-based) - on the second day after the bruise forms. On the first day, it is better to avoid increasing the temperature in the area where the bruise forms, so as not to cause repeated hemorrhage. If alcohol is used for the compress, it must be diluted with water to avoid skin burns.
- use of ointments: Rescuer, Lyoton, Troxevasin. They perfectly constrict blood vessels and help normalize metabolism in the impact zone. Also, to treat bruises, Dolobena gel and Heparin ointment are suitable.
- Applying iodine mesh directly to the bruise and the tissue around it. This method is often prescribed by doctors. Iodine has a resolving effect, allows you to quickly relieve inflammation and remove unsightly coloring. Iodine is a universal remedy for injuries. It not only treats wounds, but also removes bruises. The drug has a resolving effect by enhancing microcirculation. Frequent application of iodine to the skin can cause burns, which will only increase the bruising. Therefore, mesh should only be applied to old bruises.
- lotions from St. John's wort decoction and calendula tinctures also help improve metabolic processes. Vitamins contained in plant compositions provide skin nutrition and improve regeneration processes.
- rubbing with essential oils. A light massage using aromatic oils will speed up metabolism and speed up the healing process. Lavender, ginger, rosemary oils are good for relieving inflammation.
- compresses with bodyaga will hide the blue color in two days, and by the end of the week the hematoma will be completely removed.
Ointment that should be in every first aid kit
To prevent the periodic appearance of bruises on the lower extremities, it is enough to strengthen the blood vessels. Taking multivitamin complexes will help avoid hematomas. This is especially true for pregnant women and during winter. Particular attention should be paid to nutrition. It is important to add foods rich in vitamin C (black currants, pineapples, lemons) to your diet. Another important point is to take care of your drinking balance.
In the case of extensive subcutaneous hemorrhages that have spread even to the muscles, the formation of serious inflammatory processes and internal suppuration may follow. In this case, patients come with complaints of increased temperature in the impact zone, pain, and lumps. As a result, the limb cannot function normally: movements will be constrained. Such a case requires complex treatment, otherwise low-grade fever is possible (requires surgical intervention and a course of antibiotics).
To treat a fresh hematoma under the nail, you can heat a needle on a fire and burn through the nail plate with it. This will allow the blood and ichor to drain out. Subsequent treatment consists of applying compresses and lotions. If you don’t have the courage to carry out such micro-operations at home, you can contact a surgeon. An experienced doctor will easily eliminate excess swelling inside the nail, which will allow the bruise to disappear in a couple of days.
Hematoma under the nail
Important! You cannot treat bruises using all external agents at the same time, as this can lead to skin irritation and allergic reactions. As a result, itching and skin rash may appear.
How to get rid of bruises using traditional methods?
You can try to find the best remedy for bruises and hematomas, using the advice of traditional medicine. You can get rid of bruises at home using herbal infusions and decoctions. An effective remedy for bruises and bruises on the face and other parts of the body is lotions made from calendula, St. John's wort, and chamomile. You can add a few drops of aromatic oil to the decoction. A quick remedy for bruises is a compress with bodyaga powder, which can be purchased at a pharmacy. Another plant from which you can prepare an effective home remedy for hematomas is arnica. Some homeopathic preparations are made on the basis of this herb; you can make an infusion of arnica for compresses at home.
Folk remedies for bruises can be used immediately after injury. A massage with essential oils that you have on hand will help reduce the bruise. Calendula, rosemary, lavender, and thyme oils are best suited for this procedure. After an injury, such a massage should be done with very light movements, after applying 1-2 drops of oil. In the following days, massage movements should be more intense.
A compress of parsley leaves helps relieve pain and hematoma after a bruise. Fresh leaves of this plant should be applied to the impact site and covered with film. Traditional medicine also recommends using cabbage leaves as a compress on the site of a hematoma. Before making a compress, the leaf needs to be slightly broken or cut with a knife so that the juice is more intensively absorbed into the skin. You can keep the sheet on the skin until it dries.
Treatment in hospital
In the hospital, along with injuries, they try to eliminate the resulting hematomas. For this, doctors recommend the following remedies:
- resorption therapy. The appearance of bruises is the result of the accumulation of hemoglobin under the skin. During the process of effusion, it coagulates, turning into hemosiderin, which is manifested in the staining of tissues in a characteristic blue color. This substance can be eliminated by increasing metabolism in the impact zone. For this purpose, ointments are actively used to enhance microcirculation (Heparin, Troxerutin).
- increased blood flow. While the hematoma is fresh, the vessels in the affected area should be constricted to reduce the amount of blood spilled into the tissue. However, the very next day, in order to get rid of the bruise, you will need to strengthen your metabolic processes. For this purpose, the doctor prescribes Bodyaga. The drug causes local irritation. The natural composition of the medicine prevents the development of allergic reactions. The medicine is made from freshwater sponges.
- physiotherapeutic procedures. If there are large hematomas, a specialist may recommend hardware assistance in the form of cryotherapy, laser heating, magnetic therapy and Darsonval. Such methods allow you to activate the body’s protective functions, increase blood circulation, and quickly relieve swelling in the impact zone.
How to get rid of dark circles under the eyes?
Before taking measures to eliminate bruises under the eyes , you need to determine why such bruises appeared. In most cases, the appearance of bruises under the eyes is associated with the following reasons: kidney disease, heart disease, chronic lack of sleep. If a person has severe bruises under the eyes, then, first of all, you need to pay attention to your state of health. If you suspect a malfunction in the functioning of your internal organs, you should definitely visit a doctor and undergo all the necessary examinations. If you have a disease, the symptom of which is bruises under the eyes, it is necessary to carry out comprehensive treatment of the disease according to the regimen prescribed by the doctor. If the appearance of bruises is associated with severe fatigue, it is imperative to reconsider your daily routine, increase the number of hours of sleep and reduce the level of physical and mental stress. You should sleep at least 7-8 hours every day. It is important to give up bad habits - smoking, regular drinking of alcohol.
Some people experience dark circles under their eyes due to the characteristics of their skin. The skin near the eyes itself is thin and sensitive, in addition, a person may have a hereditary tendency to damage the thinnest capillaries, which leads to darkening of the area around the eyes.
To reduce the severity of bruises under the eyes, you can undergo a course of cosmetic procedures that improve microcirculation, strengthen blood vessels, and increase the elasticity of the skin. Such procedures are carried out in cosmetology clinics and salons. A professional cosmetologist will conduct an examination and, depending on individual characteristics, prescribe the necessary manipulations. These can be lymphatic drainage procedures, peeling, mesotherapy, etc.
At home, you can reduce the appearance of bruises under the eyes with the help of creams that contain large amounts of flavonoids, peptides, and vitamin C. In the morning, you can do a light massage in the direction from the temple to the bridge of the nose. After the massage you need to use cream.
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When should you see a doctor?
You need to consult a specialist if a very large hematoma appears on your body due to a serious injury, and the bruise causes pain, discomfort, and limits joint mobility. It is worth getting examined by those people who have bruises on their body for no apparent reason. If hematomas begin to appear for no reason in those who take large doses of aspirin or other painkillers, you should tell your doctor about this so that he can adjust the treatment.
If a large painful bruise appears during the postoperative period, it is necessary to show the hematoma to the surgeon who performed the operation.
How long does a bruise last?
The speed of bruise healing depends on the severity of the bruise, the area affected, the condition of the blood vessels, and the sensitivity of the epidermis. If there are no pathologies in the vascular bed or blood supply, then small bruises disappear within a week without the use of drugs and folk remedies, and with proper treatment – within 3–4 days.
How many days does it take for the bruising to go away?
- on the body – 12–15 days;
- on hands – 7–10 days;
- under the eye, on the nose, forehead – 6–8 days;
- on legs – up to 4 weeks.
To make bruises go away faster, you need to use a combination of traditional medicine and medications.
Important!
For severe bruises, Aspirin should not be used as a pain reliever - the medicine thins the blood, and the bruise will begin to grow rapidly.
How to prevent the formation of bruises on the body?
To avoid the appearance of hematomas on the body, you should always be careful when moving, physical work, and avoid injury. However, such prevention is not enough. It is necessary to constantly take measures that help strengthen blood vessels. You should definitely include in your diet those foods that contain a lot of zinc , vitamins K , C , D and E. These are green vegetables, fatty fish, citrus fruits, pineapples. You can periodically take vitamin complexes, but before starting such preventive treatment you should consult a therapist. also periodically use cosmetics containing vitamin C. In addition, other well-known measures aimed at strengthening the immune system should be taken.
Effective cosmetics and pharmaceutical products
There are a number of people who do not trust traditional methods of treatment. They are accustomed to using pharmaceutical and cosmetic products. The most common means in use:
- Every home medicine cabinet contains an alcohol solution of iodine. If you apply an iodine mesh to a bruise, blood circulation in that place improves, which means that the “colored spots” will disappear faster.
- Bodyaga powder, sold in any pharmacy, is not expensive, but many people know about its healing properties. Ground sea sponge is considered the most effective remedy for quickly resolving bruises. After diluting it with a small amount of water, apply it to the bruise and keep it until the mask dries completely. Then rinse with warm water. Repeat twice a day. Use very carefully in the eye area to avoid inflammation of the mucous membrane. Helps remove even old bruises.
- The famous ointments and gels “Rescuer”, “SOS”, “SinyakOFF” should be in every first aid kit, regardless of its location. At home, at work, in the office, in the country or on a hike - such a tool should definitely be at hand. The rapid resolving, decongestant and restorative effect of these drugs will help you quickly cope with the problem and the consequences of a contusion or bruise.
Why do acne marks remain?
- " Picking ". The most common cause of acne marks is squeezing. If you are currently sitting, reading an article and picking at your face or body, then stop immediately! It is this action that turns an ordinary pimple into a large, painful bump, and they rarely disappear without a trace. And the skin itself has a hard time withstanding aggressive external influences that occur when pressure is applied with fingers and nails.
- Hygiene . Not only stop squeezing pimples, but also stop touching problem skin unless absolutely necessary. Often, pustules form due to dirty fingers. Germs can also enter through other ways, for example, a stale towel, improper cleansing of the cover, etc. Therefore, any lapse in hygiene has a negative impact on acne.
- Incorrect care . Problematic skin needs to be properly cared for. Using inappropriate products can lead to clogged pores and the development of pustules. The depth of the scar directly depends on the amount of inflammation.
- Presence of infection . If the body already has an infection, then even proper care and hygiene will not be able to prevent the formation of inflammation. The infection enters from the depths of the body.
- Thin sensitive skin . Pimples on such skin leave marks without squeezing or other reasons. People with such skin will have to make every effort to prevent the occurrence of acne, because it is difficult for such dermis to get rid of traces of acne.
How can you
The skin on the back is most prone to acne marks. Scars and spots often remain on the back.
Before you treat the marks yourself, you should consult a specialist; there may be a reason related to a health problem.
If you are sure that there are no significant health problems, there are ways to remove acne marks both at home and in a clinical setting.
- Various methods of skin cleansing.
- Carrying out peeling.
- Laser therapy.
- Solarium.
- Photodynamic therapy.
- Exposure to ultrasound.
- Vacuum cleaning of leather.
Procedures must be performed for at least one week. Acne marks on the back are more difficult to remove than on other areas of the skin.
Laser treatments and peeling are the best options. These methods promote natural skin restoration and brighten it.